Background materialWelcome to Sabah,Malaysia.Land below the wind.No idea why it is land below the wind.It is not very windy here.We do have the highest mountain in South East Asia,maybe Land below the mountain would be more appropriate. I have a boy age 17 and a girl age 16. My girl is very lucky to have a very quiet brother when he was a baby..Let me tell you why.I just can not stand noisy babies and ill behaved kids.My first born would sleep quietly the whole day and have the widest smile when ever he is awake.Not forgetting his funny hair. He had the Ming dynasty hair style where the top front portion of the head is hairless from ear to ear,with hair only behind the ears. My girl too had her peculiar hair style. she was in perpetual shock.Her hair would be standing up right all the time.The shock could be caused by fact that she was taken out before her due date by caesarian.For my son,I do remember that a suction appliance was used to apply suction on the head to pull him out.(I was there holding Mommy's hand,hearing her crying and shouting to end the pain)Anyway had my son been a noisy and hyperactive baby(and I have seen some really hyper active ones)I would have done the vesotomy earlier.Both my kids are quiet and well behave teenagers now,but that doesn't mean that there was no trouble bringing up my kids.